Celeste
Dunmanian; 6C22'12
"When I saw you I fell in love, and you smiled because you knew."
Thursday, December 29, 2011
Went out today to catch up with Ching Yee and Ting Wei, took a bunch of pix but I'm a tad lazy to edit them and post them up here today.
Anyway... only 2 more days till the year ends!! As I've mentioned, this year has been the epitome of uneventful.... someone break my heart will ya? I'm so sick of feeling nothing all the time!
Anyway, I've always had random thoughts to post here, but I never really got the chance. Today I will be talking about People Who Lead Others On.
I know it gets pretty flattering when you find out someone likes you. It strokes your ego, boosts your self-confidence, makes you feel important and special, blah blardity blah. But I absolutely CANNOT stand it when people exploit other people's feelings to feel good about themselves by leading them on.
Sure, the more hearts you capture, the better you'll feel. To you, those people who like you don't affect you much. But while you coolly go on with your daily activities, can you imagine how you make them feel? You're giving them a bumpy rollercoaster ride with their emotions, you're giving them false hope, you're making them feel like shit. All the pain, heartache and anticipation you give them.... yet to you they hardly mean anything special. You affect them wayyyy more than they affect you.
So while you lead people on as a therapy to soothe your unaffected heart, imagine if you're the one dealing with unreciprocated love instead. It's so damn selfish and CRUEL. I cannot imagine people deliberately inflicting such pain on others just to feel good about themselves. Yeah, I know I'm repeating myself... but it makes me sick to think about that.
No one wants to feel invisible, everybody wants at least a morsel of attention. But I will never want that kind of attention from guys who pant at my feet, guys who will never stand a chance. And I will definitely not start texting them when they feel like pulling back, roping them in and giving them false hope. I'd rather feel unloved than give false love.
Okay end of rant.
Anyway... only 2 more days till the year ends!! As I've mentioned, this year has been the epitome of uneventful.... someone break my heart will ya? I'm so sick of feeling nothing all the time!
Anyway, I've always had random thoughts to post here, but I never really got the chance. Today I will be talking about People Who Lead Others On.
I know it gets pretty flattering when you find out someone likes you. It strokes your ego, boosts your self-confidence, makes you feel important and special, blah blardity blah. But I absolutely CANNOT stand it when people exploit other people's feelings to feel good about themselves by leading them on.
Sure, the more hearts you capture, the better you'll feel. To you, those people who like you don't affect you much. But while you coolly go on with your daily activities, can you imagine how you make them feel? You're giving them a bumpy rollercoaster ride with their emotions, you're giving them false hope, you're making them feel like shit. All the pain, heartache and anticipation you give them.... yet to you they hardly mean anything special. You affect them wayyyy more than they affect you.
So while you lead people on as a therapy to soothe your unaffected heart, imagine if you're the one dealing with unreciprocated love instead. It's so damn selfish and CRUEL. I cannot imagine people deliberately inflicting such pain on others just to feel good about themselves. Yeah, I know I'm repeating myself... but it makes me sick to think about that.
No one wants to feel invisible, everybody wants at least a morsel of attention. But I will never want that kind of attention from guys who pant at my feet, guys who will never stand a chance. And I will definitely not start texting them when they feel like pulling back, roping them in and giving them false hope. I'd rather feel unloved than give false love.
Okay end of rant.